Clitoral Orgasm

The amount and type of nerve endings in the clitoris (clit) are equal or more than that of the head of a man's penis. Imagine the same number of nerve endings all bunched together in that one little spot. An easy way to find the clit is to cup the vaginal area with the tips of your fingers pointing down, locate the vagina opening with the tip of your finger then slowly slide the same finger upward toward the belly button. As you slide your finger upward try to feel for a small separation of skin called the clitoral hood. The clitoral hood is a fold of skin that covers the clit. When a woman’s clit is sexually aroused, it becomes flushed with blood, making it swell and hard to the touch. During orgasm the clit may give a feelings of tingling, throbbing or pulsating.

There is an infinite number of ways to stimulate the clit, which can become so sensitive it may cause discomfort or the feeling of having to urinate. Since all women are different, experiment to find the best ways to stimulate your or your lover’s clit. Keep in mind that responses and desires of sexual stimulation of any degree may depend on the mood.

The clit can be rubbed fast, slow, soft, hard, up, down, left, right, in circles or any combination, using any finger, fingers, mouth, tongue, palm, penis, pelvic area or whatever else you can imagine. Once highly sensitive, just a little touch can go a long way. You may find that constant, applied pressure is all that is needed. Some women like the same type stimulation over and over, while others prefer something different every once and a while. If your communication during sex is good don’t be afraid to express what you like or dislike or ask what she likes.

Many different techniques can be used during oral stimulation.

It can be sucked gently or aggressively, nibbled or just kissed. I encourage you men to try anything and everything, while being sensitive to the responses of your lover.

Clitoral orgasms come in many different intensities and durations. One may sigh with pleasure for a second from one small orgasm or scream and moan all night from multiple clit orgasms. Some women may ejaculate, what seems like, a tremendous amount of hot, milky white substance from their urethra during an intense orgasm, which could be embarrassing to both partners, being that it could be mistaken for urine. Female ejaculation should never be viewed as an embarrassing moment. It is a climax of sexual pleasure just like male ejaculation. The ejaculated liquid is usually odorless and will dry into flakes, easily brushing away from most surfaces, including skin. If a woman does become embarrassed because of female ejaculation,

I encourage men to assure their lovers that they are happy for the experience and are looking forward to it again. Men, don’t ever negatively comment on female ejaculation to your lover because it could cause severe psychological dysfunctions.