You can also try different movements such as up and down, side-to-side, circular and pressing at all different speeds, rhythms and intensities. You may find the clit too sensitive to stimulate at times or unresponsive at others. I think it is safe to say that that your reaction to clitoral stimulation can at times be directly related to your level of desire..
Whether it be fondling or intercourse, experimenting with different types of rhythms and intensities may ultimately lead to having a clit orgasm or becoming so aroused that you are able to have other types of orgasms with little effort.
On Top
While lying on top of your husband during intercourse with your knees bent, try as many different combinations of rhythms and intensities as you can think of. You may sit upright so he can see and enjoy your facial expressions or massage your breasts. You may want to lie flat or switch back and forth from flat to upright. Without thrusting in and out during intercourse, use your hips as a pivot to slide forward and backwards. As you slid forward and back, try different speeds, slow and fast. Also try short and long slides at different depths of the penis.
Remember, the G spot is just a couple inches inside the vagina, so deep might not always be better. You may need to put some lubrication on your clit and/or on his pelvic bone right above the base of his penis. Also try putting lubrication on any part of your body that is touching his, especially your inner thighs and his upper thighs. It may seem slippery at first but it can also give you a lot more freedom with your movements. While sliding, concentrate on rubbing your clit against his pelvic bone. You must experiment with as many different speeds, penis depths and pressures as you can to find out what works best for you. You may be surprised at how slow, hard and shallow you can go while getting maximum pleasure. You may also be surprised at how fast you can go, but be careful not to tire yourself out while going fast.Again, I encourage you to experiment.
You may find that being consistent with a certain type of motion in a certain position is best for you. In other words, if a certain rhythm in a certain position feels good, then keep doing the same movement over and over letting the sensation build into an orgasm. If something feels good but then starts to subside, don’t give up, just try a different speed, rhythm or position.
You may want to give it a rest every once and a while and let your nerve endings recuperate, so to speak. While resting, slide his penis at least half way out so when you go deep again it seems like a fresh sensation. Allow your spontaneity and passion to continue with deep kissing and/or embracing. I am sure you can think of something while resting. You may find more times than not that rest is absolutely necessary in reaching higher levels of pleasure. Orgasms can be described as subtle, tingling sensations in one area of the body or complete body spasms with screaming, scratching and gasping.
Contrarily you may find yourself completely unable to move, breathe or talk during an orgasm. You may find yourself having multiple, yet very slight, orgasms before a big one. Whatever type orgasm you have whether it be small orlarge, enjoy it. Now take everything I have talked about in this chapter and apply it to all different types of lovemaking and other types of orgasm. I know I keep repeating this, but some of you need it.
Experiment, experiment, experiment. Enjoy your body, enjoy his a husband and wife are sharing themselves and enjoying themselves through sex, it is pleasing to God who is the creator of sex,love and peace.
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